Marriage is similar to start as building construction
Marriage is the legal union of a man and woman as husband and wife. Marriage is about loving another person through good times and bad. Marriage is beneficial to society because it is the foundation of the family and the basic building block of society.
Marriage brings significant stability and meaning to human relationships, remains the ideal for rising of children, plays an important role in transferring culture and civilization into future generations.
Love Marriage VS Arranged Marriage
In love marriage, you get the person of your choice.
In arranged marriage you get the person of someone else choice.
In love marriage husband and wife know each other before marriage.
In arranged marriage husband and wife know each other only after marriage.
Love marriage, shows that you are not dependent on parents.
Arranged marriage shows that you are dependent on parents to find suitable partners.
Love marriage there is more freedom compared to arranged marriage.
Love marriage clears all the evils like communalism, dowry, caste system and many more.
In love marriage, you start with very high expectations that were set during courtship. After marriage as those expectations are not satisfied, your disappointment starts.
In arranged marriage, you start with very low (or no) expectations from your spouse. You get pleasantly surprised by everything.
Love Marriage gets less or no support from parents and family.
In arranged marriage, as parents and family helped made the marriage possible they also feel a more responsibility to make the marriage work. So, they gloss over minor issues
The key to successful of love/arranged marriage is love, understanding, mutual respect, trust, commitment and togetherness. According to me arrange marriages are better if we consider there will be 99% success in arrange marriages there will be more mutual understanding in between both of them. And the foremost thing is that there will be support of our parents. |